Successful Dating For Men Aged 30-50

30-50 years old and single?

Then this website is for you!

Let me introduce myself. My name is John Payne. I was born in Britain but left when I was 23 to move to Germany. At the time, I only expected to be in Germany for a couple of years – a couple of decades later and Germany is now my home.

I live in a house that I built myself – brick by brick – and I coach men who want to find their soul mate – step by step.

John Payne

In my mid-twenties, I was a short, nerdy, shy guy lacking the skills to be comfortable striking up a casual conversation. I found it difficult to approach women – especially ones that I found attractive. I would blush or hide in a corner somewhere.

In short: dating was hell. I had no idea how to go about it. No idea what I was doing wrong … or even that I could be doing something wrong.

In my mid-thirties, I felt it was just my lot in life to be single. This was the life that fate had given me. Finding a woman to love, marry, and spend the rest of my life with, was just not going to happen. It was up to me to make the most of it.

After I felt really unhappy for a while, I realised that there was other part of my life where I was willing let fate alone decide my life.

Was I willing to accept I was not achieving my career goals? No, of course not. I found out what the problem was and improved my skills or changed my job if I needed to.

Was I willing to accept that I was not able to do the sports and hobbies that I wanted? No, of course not. I found the time, put the effort in, and had fun doing what I wanted to do.

It was the same with every other part of my life that I considered to be important. So why was I willing to accept that I should leave such an important part of my life up to the fates?

Well put like that, it just seemed ridiculous. I clearly just needed to put the effort in and learn how to be better at dating …

So that is what I did.

It took me a few years to figure it all out. Even longer to turn it into an step-by-step system that you can use. Now I coach single men, just like you, in how to find and date the kind of women that they always wanted to be with. To be successful dating online and then following up afterwards to turn it into a serious relationship.

How about you? Are you happy with being single? Are you happy to just wait for fate to lead you to the love of your life? Are you content to spend the next few years trying to figure it all out? Or are you ready to take the next step and get a little bit of advice on how you too can find your soul mate within the next few months?

You probably won’t believe me right now, but I’ll say it anyway: Dating online and offline does not have to be a difficult and painful experience. Once you know how to do it right, dating becomes fun.

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